the hills

Alright, I'll admit that I am addicted to MTV...The Hills to be exact. Each episode is filled with so much drama that you think the next one will get better for Lauren, when in fact, it gets worse. Who could ever imagine getting screwed over by two best friends? Many people believe and are assured that most of the drama going on in each episode is stupid, which makes them think that the show in its entirety is a waste of time to watch. I could agree on that in some sense. I hear people say, "Lauren should realize what a backstabbing friend Heidi is, and that if Heidi doesn't trust her "best friend" about the things that Spencer was doing, they really in fact, shouldn't be friends anymore." Ah, how much drama girls cause. I'm not gonna lie, whereever girls are, drama occurs...inevitably. As much as I hate to say it, the more girls are caught up in their boyfriends, the less they see wrong about them, and the less they listen to what other people have to say both positively and negatively. Which brings me to connect to Ami's whole blog post on "What is Love?" Middle and high school relationships seem so sketch to me too because people end up taking their relationships so seriously, and get themselves to believe that they are truly in love with this person, and that nothing can come between them. Reality check. You are only in high school still. You are not out in the real world. Grow up. You know what else irritates me? When the whole college issue comes up and people are like "Oh yeah I'm gonna go to college with so and so." When it's like "What about your goals and what you want to do with your future?" People these days are so caught up in love, that they forget about themselves and what they really want instead of trying to be everywhere where that significant other is. Don't get me wrong, I don't totally disagree with high school relationships. In some cases I do think the love that people have for one another is surreal, but it's just those couple instances that make me feel like so.